Dating standards

personal experience and my thoughts only
So there are so many women in this world that date men that are totally not treating them right and they stay in the relationship. WHY IS THAT? I started thinking about it and thought some very interesting reasons. First, they deserve to be treated that way and they aren't worth anything better. FALSE!!! Second, all men are monsters. FALSE!!! Lastly, they couldn't find better because better isn't out there. FALSE!!!

"I deserve to be treated this way! I am not worth anything better."
Women are treasures. They deserve the world. Women have such a power and influence on the world. Why would people of such worth and beauty let someone treat them like they are worthless. Because they feel they are worthless. This is a problem of self-confidence. In a world filled with highly edited media, women see these "perfect" people and it skews the idea of what we are supposed to look like. beauty is not realistic anymore. The real beauty, REAL WORTH  is in your personality, your smile, the light in your eyes, the content of your character, your laugh, your efforts, you smarts, your abilities, etc. there is not just the outward appearance.

All men are monsters.
This can seem true to many women. We have all been hurt at least once by a man but guess what! Men are hurt by women as well. It's not only a women that can be hurt, cheated on, or abused. Men and women don't understand each other perfectly. I know first hand that it can feel impossible to believe that a man REALLY thought it was a good idea to do or say what he did but then he has the audacity to then ask "why are you even mad about that?" We don't think the same. Men and women are biologically different and for good reason. The man and the woman compliment each other in ways that the other does not have. Men and women are made differently which makes it only natural to butt heads at least a little. So no, not all men are monsters, and not all women are either. this is not to say that the man or women that did that thing isn't a monster. Some people are but not ALL. They are usually a good person that did a bad thing. They have something to learn and maybe they learned it with your situation or they will learn it down the road.

I couldn't find better because better isn't out there
Don't settle. There is better out there. There is someone that will treat you right. The person that isn't treating you right may just not value you as you should be but someone else will. It can seem as though it is the theme of your dating life of people treating you poorly which can make you think thats all you are worth. You could see it as an indicator but it's not true. No matter who you are, where you are from, what you look like, or what your hobbies are, you deserve to be treated like a queen/king. You deserve to look at the person you are with and think "wow! How did i get so lucky. I could possibly do something to deserve someone as amazing as you". The truth is, you deserve them. You didnt have to do anything but be your amazing self and be a good person.

LASTLY,
There is no such thing as "out of your league" If there was Leagues in dating, I would not be married to Kendrick. So that guy that you think is totally hot, talk to him!  That girl that you think has a beautiful smile, TELL HER! The guy that impressed you with his comment in class, mention it to him! Because NO ONEIS TOO GOOD FOR YOU!